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MandJ VIP Gold
since the creation of the cuckolding club we have turned a blind eye to the uploading of pictures other then blatantly obvious illegal ones.. captioned pictures where always awesome and very creative in some instances

For the past few months we have severely cut back on our own use of images taken from the web we started to think about them and we like you guys to think about them to, US and you could get in serious trouble with what you take and post here..

1. do you own the rights to them

2. who is in the picture and have they given rights to post them Ex wife or girlfriend?

3. how old are the people in the picture(s)?

4. where was the picture originally taken from, maybe a personal pictures from a swingers website?

5. would you like ALL your very private adult pictures shared across the interweb with out your permission?

6. are the pictures licensed to a adult studio or performer?

so, all we are asking just take a few seconds and think about who and where the pictures come from?

we shall still allow them to be uploaded but in the near future you will have to click a button to say you own ALL rights to them!!

not a rant or a moan just asking for peeps to think about who is in the pictures

MandJ Oct 16 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 10
CurvyVixen VIP Gold
hey everyone I am New To This website & i am Looking for big cocked bulls that are aged between 25-35. I am a curvy 24 year old female & recently got into this lifestyle with my fiancé. Looking for bulls who don't mind taking pictures and videos, etc . Interested ? Message me  
MandJ VIP Gold
I always remembering being part of a lifestyle club and the owners taught me quite a few things about the alternative adult lifestyles. First one  learned it is "WAS ALWAYS ABOUT THE FEMALES" even down to emailing a couple or writing a list the females name would always be FIRST! makes sense

BUT on a little side note they told me that one of the biggest thrills for some men was "just emailing the club" that was it, a massive turn of for some men was just emailing a swingers club!! I thought about it and being very open to most things "I thought if it makes them happy well good for them"

This brings me onto the thought of the blog post "cuckolding fantasy or reality" we have a LOT of guys and women who sign up to the www.cuckolding.club then within minutes un-register their profiles, many reasons some being noisy, dont like the websites etc etc BUT it's the ones who think or seemed to think that cuckolding is a MUST DO lifestyle and scares the heck out of them..

for us we been in the lifestyle now for several years on and off and we have just loved our escapades, can not say we have had a bad experience and we always go on the side of caution.

We also encourage a lot of people to give the lifestyle a go and try to point out the pitfalls and again highlight the most important thing is TALK and then more TALK BUT also we love to encourage people on the fantasy side of the lifestyle AND if that is what  gets people going we whole hardheartedly encourage it.

NO ONE says YOU HAVE TO MAKE IT A REALITY fantasy can be just as good if not better for some folks!! At the end of the day it is what works for YOU either a nice little sexual fantasy or a nice sexual reality..

MnJ oxo


MandJ Oct 6 · Rate: 5 · Tags: cuckold, cuckolding, hotwife, hotwives, sissy cuckold
willingcuckold VIP Gold
Okay, so I've been here for awhile and mostly watching and hitting the like button for really great posts.  I thought I'd post a question to fellow cuckolds and especially wannabes.  So here goes:

Do you ever find yourself attracted to a *very* specific Bull that you truly want to be the Man to cuckold you?  This question is especially directed at other wannabes like me that are single, but also if cucks that are currently in a relationship would like to offer their perspectives and experiences that would be very welcome also!

I find myself in this situation, and kind of yearn to be cuckolded by a *specific* Man to take this role even though I'm single.  It has nothing to do with any kind of bi urges, because it is all about feeling submissive towards him and wanting to surrender my woman to him (if I had one) as an expression of subservience to him. Instead, I just like his style as a bull (so to say), and would love to be in the right situation with him.  For reference, no he has no idea, and no I won't bother to approach him without being 'attached' so to speak.

Thoughts . . .

willingcuckold Sep 12 · Rate: 4.50 · Comments: 2
MandJ VIP Gold

Found this on Tumblr thought we share it with you 

The year is 2017,

and you still have to explain to adult men AND women that there’s no such thing as a “tight” or “loose” vagina, because it’s a muscle that expands and contracts depending on a variety of reasons.

Or that a woman does not pee out of her vagina.

Or that reaching an orgasm during sexual assault does not mean the person enjoyed it.

Or that abortion is not the destruction of a fetus, but is of a clump of cells.

That the length of a penis has NO relevance to the ability to preform well sexually, since the average vagina is only 3-4 inches long.

That pubic hair is not unsanitary or gross, it actually helps protect the sex organs against bacteria,
and shaving actually increases chance of infection, abscesses and rashes.

But no,

we don’t need comprehensive sex ed in America, we’re doing fine!

MandJ Aug 3 · Comments: 1
HungSexyGuy VIP Gold

Last night, I had an encounter with another "First Time" Cuckold couple. They were newbies, but they definitely knew what they wanted. 

She is a cute, late 20's Asian girl, with long black hair, beautiful face, perfect tits with large, ultra-responsive nipples, a tiny beautiful ass, and the tiniest pussy I've seen since I was 12 years old. She was concerned that I wouldn't fit, or that I would hurt her, but I assured her that I would be gentle. 

Cucki got a hotel room near where I live, and when I got to the room, I found her sitting on the bed, and him in boxers. He had lights set up and a laptop to record video. She suggested that we shower together to break the ice, and I quickly helped to undress her and in the shower we went. We washed each other and got familiar with each other's bodies, and she was so cute when she asked if it was ok to touch my cock. 

Back to the bed, we snatched up the vial of body lotion from the bathroom, and I started by giving her a little bit of a massage.

"Wow, you look like a professional!", he exclaimed.

"Yeah, I've done this before."

I worked my way down her back, and massaged her lovely ass... as I did, she raised up a bit, showing me her lovely little pussy. I massaged both of her thighs, and her pussy opened more. First my thumb and then my tongue found it's way into that sweet little hole. 

I sucked her nipples, and started to diddle her clit with the tip of my cock... I started to work the tip into that tiny little hole, and she asked me something I've never heard before; "Is it in?". I realized she meant, "Is it ALL in", and I told her just the tip.. there's more. I worked my cock into her slowly, she was so extremely wet, and she asked the same question a couple of times. I was intentionally taking my time to work my cock into her, since looking at cucki, I could tell she hasn't had much in the past. She suggested a change of positions, and she sat on top of me, and took my whole cock inside of her, and started rocking back and forth. Cucki was struggling to get a good view and good camera angles. 

We switched positions again and I fucked her doggie style, cucki worked his way underneath her, licking her clit and watching up close as her snug pussy lips clung to my shaft on each outstroke... "Pull my hair", she asked... and "cum in me", over and over. I asked him how it felt to hear her ask me to cum inside of his wife.  After a while, I pulled out and my heavy cock fell on his face with a loud THUD.

"OH! wow! Uhm, that's ok... that was just an accident. Right?"

"Yeah", I chortled. 

She went back on her back again, and she donned the blindfold cucki handed her, cucki sucked and played with her nipples while I fucked her in long, deep strokes. I pulled out and shot my load on her tits. We had been fucking for about an hour. 

Cucki crawled between her thighs and asked for some privacy, I knew what he wanted, he wanted to slurp my cum off her tities, but was embarrassed to do it while I watched. He must've liked it, because it was gone in a flash. He slid his little dick inside her and exclaimed "Oh, my God! You feel so different!".

"Yeah, she feels like a different woman, doesn't she?"

It was all over in a couple of strokes for cucki. 

She and I kissed, I dressed, and shook cucki's hand as he thanked me, and told me he hopes to see me again. 

"It's all up to her", I said. and I walked out the door. 

A good time was had by all. 

HungSexyGuy Jul 31 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 7 · Tags: first time
lawbro789 VIP Gold
A guide to entering the Hotwife lifestyle

So you are now one of the millions of women who learned she has a husband with fantasies about you having sex with other men. Welcome to our club. Hopefully you’re past the shock. Maybe you have even reached that point where there is no need for me to tell you how lucky you are. If you’re not then you WILL reach that point if you follow what other wives like me have learned.
If you’re like most of us, you were unaware that your husband had these desires. You were living the married life thinking that you knew your husband better than he knew himself. Ha! Too funny.
Depending on how long you’ve been married, things may or may not have cooled off in the bedroom. Face it. The rut comes to every bedroom. If it hasn’t don’t be lulled into thinking it won’t happen to you. Some of you may have already had affairs or even had thoughts of leaving your husband out of sheer boredom. Then you somehow found out about his secret fantasy, and hopefully decided that there is a solution for the both of you. Lucky you, even if you don’t know it yet.
He wants you to have sex with another man. Wow. Unsure about it? Don’t feel alone. I did too. But take a moment and think about the potential. See all of those other unhappy women out there in boring, sexless marriages? See all those other women around you having affairs, lying to themselves and their husbands, and risking messy divorces? Don’t laugh at them. They were once you, or could have been you. But now you will end up different from them. If you read this and follow it you’re going to find yourself on a road that will return you to sexual fulfillment, feeling as confident as when you were first married, in love with your husband again and appreciating him more than ever.
You are on the way to becoming a Hot Wife.
A Hot Wife is a woman who is free to have sex with others with her husband’s knowledge, approval and encouragement. The level of her husband’s involvement can vary. In fact it will be up to YOU. Some wives play completely on their own, with no interaction with her husband. Others enjoy their husband watching or participating. However, in all these relationships the wife is free to play with others, while the husband remains completely monogamous and faithful only to her.
Sound crazy? Well believe me when I tell you it is easy to do and your sex life will be better than you imagine. In this new relationship the husband is often called a cuckold, which just means a man with a cheating wife. Of course cheating is a misnomer, since the wife’s actions are not hidden from the husband, and he is very aware of her activities. In fact his awareness and approval is one of the most important ingredients. It will turn him on like nothing you’ve ever done before.
I assume you’re reading this because you’ve finally found out about your husband’s desires and you are contemplating the Hot Wife lifestyle. Good for you, but you may want some advice.
First, go slowly. Do not rush it. Having a husband that enjoys this lifestyle is different, so you need to nurture the relationship first and foremost, while moving into the lifestyle slowly. It might take time before you are comfortable having full on sex in front of him, or he may take time to become accustomed to watching or knowing you are out being intimate with other men. What you want to do is encourage his desires for you to be with other men, and make it as pleasurable for him as it is for you.
If you go slowly and follow my advice, in time you will have a husband that will let you do anything sexually. Anything! And he will want you to do more. He will find himself anticipating it as much as you (maybe more than you). He will get his sexual satisfaction from YOUR encounters with other men, and most importantly he will be drawn to you like never before, and more in love with you than at any time in your marriage!
In the Hot Wife lifestyle there are three levels of involvement for your husband:
1. You meet other men alone with no involvement from your husband. He may never know them or meet the other men in your life. You meet them on your own, and make all arrangements without any approval from your husband. The other men may or may not know about your lifestyle, or be aware that your husband knows about them. They may not even know you’re married, if you choose to remove your rings and pretend to be single.
2. You meet other men together with your husband, with him knowing them, and them knowing of him. However any interaction between both men is more on a social or perhaps friendship level. Your husband is not involved in any sexual activities between you and the other man. Your husband could even be the one who finds other men or helps make arrangements for you to meet them (your “dates”). But your husband is not included in your sexual encounters, except possibly left to hear them via an open phone call while they are happening.
3. Having sexual relations with other men in your husband’s presence, or even engaging in some sexual play that involves all three of you, ménage à trois style. In the classic cuckold arrangement you engage in sexual play with your lover while your husband watches, but he does not play at all.
As an extension of this situation, there can be involvement of the husband in the classic ménage-a-trois arrangement, or traditional three ways. This could involve any degree of sex, which all three agree upon. Some wives prefer their husband be involved sexually and that is your choice. As you will see this will all become about YOUR preferences.
Any of these levels can be appropriate, depending on the couple and what they prefer. It’s important to know where you, and to a lesser extent your husband, wish to take things, so open communication is important to establish your goals and boundaries. Just make sure that the “other” man fully understands everything as well. It’s important for him to know upfront where he fits into the couple’s relationship. It’s also important that he respect any boundaries you set out (you set the boundaries, NOT your husband).
With proper techniques, a new Hot Wife can quickly learn how to get the most from her sexual encounters AND help her husband find new levels of pleasure from a more passive role than he is likely to have experienced earlier in your marriage. This takes time though, as most husbands are accustomed to being the spouse in charge.
As you begin, you MUST remember one very important fact. Hot Wife is not just about sex. It’s also about CONTROL. If you are like most women, your husband has been in control so far in your marriage. Right? Well, now you can change that.
Hot Wife is about what YOU want. YOUR sexual pleasure. YOUR sexual control. I know it sounds strange. But once you’ve experienced it you WILL enjoy it immensely! Think YOU not HIM. As selfish as it may sound at first, doing so will turn him on more than anything you’ve ever done yet! The change in you by itself will begin to arouse him.
Now, here’s what to do the first few times. After that, once you’ve got a taste of it (and he’s thirsty for more), you can do as you damn well please. After all, you are the Hot Wife! (You won’t read stuff like this anywhere else.)
Remember rule #1 - The goal is for YOU to be in control of the sex, not him. You do what you want; when you want; and how you want; with whom you want and have him go along with it. Got it?
First, you have to set the groundwork from the beginning. If you do it right, he will be totally faithful and a perfect husband to you, as he learns to get his sexual satisfaction in the lifestyle as a result of YOUR being satisfied. Meanwhile you can have fun with your new freedom and let out the little slut that’s bottled up inside every woman.
DON’T let him decide what kind of sex or how much sex or who you should have sex with. Remember this - NO CHOICE and NO VOICE. He should have no say in whether or not you jack a man off, or if you chose to screw the entire staff of Starbucks. He should have no say in whether you go out to another mans home, or bring a man into your bedroom. He should have no say in when it happens, or whom you choose. Once you allow him to have a say, then you let the control slip back to him. That’s NOT what you want. You want to be the one in control. Trust me, YOU will love it once it happens, and HE will too (even if he doesn’t know why).
When you decide you’re going to go out and meet someone, or have someone over, just tell your husband, in a very matter of fact tone. Don’t give him a choice in the matter. Say, “I’m having someone over tomorrow evening and we’re going to spend some time in bed.” Or say, “I’m going out with someone Friday night and I plan to go home with him afterward”. That’s it. You can share as many details as you want (before and after) but don’t let him try to influence you or allow him to shape the event. Be firm. Make it clear that you are making the decision because it’s what you want. Take control of your sexuality and control that aspect of your relationship for that night. Send the message that you’re in charge.
If you want, it’s fine to tell him what’s going to happen before you do it. That is a big part of the excitement for many couples. Share all of the details you wish. But the idea is to show him that you’ve made a decision based on YOUR needs and desires, and his needs are secondary to your needs right now. Show him that you’re a horny woman who’s taken charge of getting yourself satisfied without him. The idea that you will go to another man for your sexual fulfillment will drive him crazy with lust for you (trust me!).
It’s also important to keep him involved every step of the way. Share everything. Depending on your relationship level, you may want to keep him abreast of your discussions with the other man, share details of your plans, etc. It’s important to keep him involved, but as a SPECTATOR and NOT a participant.
This creates a sexually charged experience for him, even before you have ANY sex at all! If you are having thoughts about calling someone to meet this weekend, tell him. Let the suspense and excitement build. It’s a game. Share it with him and it will excite you BOTH.
When the big day arrives to meet a man, be deliberately aloof and distant from your husband the entire day. Give him some tasks to keep him busy, maybe something that helps prepare for your evening. Perhaps send him out to buy a nice bottle of wine, or tidy up around the household.
Many couples enjoy the ritual of the husband helping the wife prepare herself for a date. You can have him help you bathe or shower, and dry you off. Have him put on your panties and stockings. I talk to my husband and tease him, I tell him to get me ready for the other man’s cock, etc.
Doing this lays the groundwork early on. It puts you in charge and creates an atmosphere where he begins to mentally relinquish his rights to you, as part of turning you over to another man. Doing this also reinforces the new power you have. It will also make the sex more intense between the two of you during the next few days, when he takes charge of you again. It’s an important part of the game that has powerful appeal, and helps bond you together.
If you are having a man over, have your husband arrange the areas where you will entertain (living room, bedroom, ect). Dim the lights. Light some candles and put on some quiet music as you wait. If he will be present in the bedroom, have him prepare an area off to the side from where he will watch.
When the man arrives, EVERYTHING should change. Discuss beforehand what your husband’s role will be. Assuming that he remains present, there are certain things you can do to set the tone, and create an unforgettable night for him AND you.
First, have it prearranged for him to sit somewhere out of the way, so that you and your lover can carry on as if your husband is NOT THERE AT ALL (this is VERY important). I usually tell the other man to ignore my husband. After the early pleasantries my husband seldom interacts with us at all. The excitement of experiencing a new man sexually, while at the same time turning on the man I love, is difficult to explain but incredibly exciting.
When the man arrives at your home, don’t be timid and make small talk for an hour. This is a common mistake. It’s too awkward to prolong things. Everyone knows he’s there for sex. There’s no reason to delay. Since it’s all about sex, look for the first chance to break the ice and get started. This is part of your “take charge” persona that comes with the control you’ve assumed. Show your desire for the other man by initiating intimacy while your husband watches.
If I know him from previous dates I often give a full kiss to my “date” right in the doorway and linger, perhaps even lightly rub his crotch a bit, giving him a chance to return the grope.
Then I walk him into the living room, with my husband either following or already waiting for us. Depending on the man, I sometimes prefer to have an adult video playing on the TV with the volume turned down, and pleasant music playing lightly in the background. With a nice glass of wine this is a sure-fire way to get things going without much delay.
You can linger there if you want, or wildly strip off your clothes and jump on him, or lead him to the bedroom. It’s up to you. You’re the Hot Wife. Some women like to tease their husbands for a while. Others just like to plop down in the doorway and start sucking within seconds. It’s up to you. Do what turns YOU on. YOU are in charge.
Some wives like to NOT look at or talk to their husband AT ALL, especially during the first few times he watches. But some husbands want their wives to look them in the eye while they’re enjoying their new lover. It can be very exciting to tell your husband how GOOD it feels, how much BIGGER he is than your husband, and how much BETTER the sex feels. Cuckold husbands want their hotwives to have the BEST sexual experience of their lives, so let him know that is what you are getting. It can be extremely sexy either to ask if it’s OK for your lover to cum inside of you, or for your husband to hear you TELL your lover to cum inside of you. And be sure to let your husband know each and every time you orgasm with your new lover. On the other hand, you can try to totally PRETEND HE’S NOT THERE. Some watching husbands love this. They like to think they are anonymously watching you have a secret sexual affair. But in any case, they want to see you lost with your lover, while they get a front row seat to the best live porn they will ever experience.
Here’s more advice for the first few times. ENJOY yourself! Don’t be shy or act inhibited. Don’t be afraid to moan and scream and cry out with passion. Pay attention to your lover exactly like you would if you were totally alone with him.
Many women feel inhibited and reserved with their husband watching, but this hinders what you want to accomplish. He wants to see you in the throes of wild passion, without a care in the world (least of all worrying about your husband). It may take you some time to do it, but putting him out of your mind should be your goal.
Here’s another tip - treat your lover like you treated your husband WHEN YOU WERE DATING. Ladies, you know what this means. Let your slut come out! Plenty of oral sex. Plenty of fucking. Multiple times if possible. Give him all he wants, until he can’t see straight and you can’t walk straight! When he’s done, continue to pamper him EXACTLY as you would your husband, right up until the goodnight kiss at the door.
After he leaves, you think you’re done and now it’s time for some sleep? Surprise girl! It’s not close to being over yet.
The next step is VERY important if you want to keep doing this. It’s important that your husband support your Hot Wife life, and that he be behind you all the way. So, even if you’re tired, you must immediately turn ALL your attention to your husband. Turn off the distant, sex-starved Hot Wife games you played earlier and become ALL HIS AGAIN!
Let him reclaim you as his own. Reassure him that you’re still his wife and that you love him even MORE for allowing you this night of pleasure! Depending on the couple, you may or may not have sex right away, or even for days after (this is up to you two). He may even have masturbated earlier, while watching you. I know some husbands who just watch without a hard-on but then end up fucking their wives like madmen for days after the date. Many husbands will want to perform CLEAN UP duty. This is where the husband licks the lovers cum from the wife’s pussy or off of her breasts. It can be EXTREMELY arousing for both involved! It’s a primal reaction serving to both reclaim the wife and show the husband’s subservience to her pleasure. But even though they desire this, most husbands will not do this on their own. Your husband may want you to ORDER HIM to perform clean up duty. This maintains the woman’s sexual dominance in all areas of the Hot Wife lifestyle. But each relationship is different. Do what’s right for you two.
But as soon as the other man departs you must be right back in your husband’s arms and become his wife and lover again. Make sure he receives the love and pleasure and release he needs to REINFORCE his desire to watch you do it again.
Over the next few days, reassure him that you love him and care about him, that you’re his wife forever. Most importantly, remind him that you LOVE the fact that he lets enjoy this lifestyle. Tell him how much you enjoyed that night. Tease him while replaying the night over and over. Tell him you can’t wait to do it again. Tell him how self-assured and unique he is to be able to share you the way he does, and how you appreciate the freedom he gives you.
Chances are you’ll be having great sex with your husband for weeks after he watches, and he will be more attentive and loving than he was before you started these games. That’s just another benefit of the lifestyle. When that happens, you’ll become hooked on the Hot Wife lifestyle, and so will he.
If you do this, the lifestyle will become an important part of your sexual relationship and it will grow into the most exciting sex life you’ve ever enjoyed together. In time, his most intense sexual pleasure will come from you HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE, as crazy as that might sound. And what could be better for you? You get to take charge of your sex life. You get to explore new sexual horizons most married women never experience. Your husband will love and adore you more than he ever has, and you BOTH stay sexually fulfilled.
There is so much to experience in this lifestyle that you’ll never be bored. If you lay the right groundwork and do it correctly from the beginning, you can have a supportive, open-minded husband and the freedom to do whatever you want with his blessing. To me, there is no better marriage than one that is open and sexually permissive. Without my loving husband involved in my new life, I would probably have long ago been divorced and miserable by now. So get out there and get started.

lawbro789 Jul 14 · Comments: 3
HungSexyGuy VIP Gold
A cuckold told me that when he was in his 20's, he was in Germany, and he surprised a couple he knew with a visit. They were on their way out the door, and they brought him to a party. It turned out to be a swing party. They had never given him a clue that they were into anything like that, and it was all new to him. He entered, someone pointed at a bin, and told him to take his clothes off... he was ushered into a room where a couple of dozen people were fucking. 

One middle aged women was lying on the carpet, and called him over, and said "Fuck me"... she seemed urgent about it. Well, she spread her legs, and he slid his dick into her, and, OMG, it was heavenly! He had never experienced anything like it.. she had what he thought was "The Golden Pussy", and it didn't take long for him to cum in her. They went their separate ways, to play with others. He had a blast. 

Later on, he saw a couple fucking, and the guy obviously came in her, pulled out and walked away. She beckoned him over... he shook his head no, he wasn't going in there after another guy...  she became insistent, and well, she was gorgeous, and he said to himself, "what the hell..."

Well, as soon as he slid into her, he realized what made his first pussy of the night the "Golden Pussy"; that had been his first "Sloppy Seconds", and now that he knew what it was, he was addicted.  

Now middle aged himself, he loves sloppy seconds, and anxiously asks me to fill his wife's pussy for him, so that he can truly enjoy her. And, she doesn't seem to mind at all! 

HungSexyGuy Jul 1 · Comments: 1 · Tags: bareback, sloppy seconds, creampie
kentuckycuck VIP Gold
I wanted to share this article about Cuckoldry with the members of this site as my wife and I really found that it gave us a lot of insight into the nature, history etc., of cuckolding. Its a bit lengthy but for us it was very informative. Speaking for myself it turned on a number of light bulbs about my own desires to be cucked and my wife's needs and desires as well. I cited the author of the article above but if this is not correct to post here please feel free to remove. Thanks and take care.

h1The Science of Cuckoldry

By sex therapist & relationships counselor Susan Gower

After studying human sexuality for many years it has become inarguable to me that a cuckold relationship (in which the wife engages in sexual activity with a variety of men while her husband remains faithful) is most compatible with basic human evolutionary make up. It is straying from this evolutionarily grounded human bonding relationship that has produced such misunderstandings and conflict between the sexes.

At the very base of this principle is the understanding of a woman’s psychological need for a variety of sex partner’s. Psychologically, women are hardwired differently than men. A woman has a dual sex drive. The first is centered on finding a mate for life to help support her and her offspring. This is why (and when) love is such an important part of a women’s sexual desire. The second is a desire to obtain a variety of the best genetic material to produce the best children. This second desire begins to grow once a woman has found her life mate and grows stronger as time with him progresses. Eventually, this later and more powerful drive overpowers her sexual desire for her life mate. This is why a woman’s sexual desire for her husband diminishes over time. At the same time her sexual desire for other men is increasing. Often this desire for other men becomes so strong she cannot deny it. This does not make her immoral or mean that she no longer loves her husband. It is simply part of her genetic code.

Physiological sexual differences between men and women also support the cuckold relationship as the ideal for marriage. It is well known that women don’t reach her sexual peak until they are in their thirties, while men peak by the time they are twenty. In a typical marriage, a wife is generally younger than her husband or the same age. As a result, a woman’s increasing sexual appetite, due to her biologically age based sex drive, gives her greater sexual needs than her husband. She needs more sexual encounters, longer sexual encounters and more orgasms than her spouse. Her older or same age husband, on the other hand, wants sex far less than his wife, oftentimes lasts only a few minutes before he reaches orgasm and then, no longer interested in sex, leaves his wife unsatisfied and frustrated. As a marriage continues this discrepancy in sexual needs increases dramatically, usually to the breaking point of a wife secretly finding a lover or lovers outside the marriage.

Compounding this is that nature has not only given women a two prong and exponentially stronger sex drive than men, it has also given women the ability to experience a far greater quantity, intensity, and variety of sexual pleasure and orgasm than men. This is nature’s way of motivating a woman to seek out sexual activity considering the risk she bears in doing so. (Even though today’s contraceptives greatly reduce these risks, they do nothing to diminish the internal triggers that drive a woman’s need for a variety of sex and sex partners. If anything, this reduction of risk intensifies her drive to seek pleasure.)

As a result, women can experience a wide range and intensity of sexual pleasure and diversity of orgasm. Besides the pleasure and orgasms derived from manual, oral and coital stimulation of a woman’s clitoris, all three of which feel distinctly different, a woman can reach a completely different sensation of pleasure and a completely different orgasm from the stimulation of her g-spot by a well endowed man. A woman can even reach orgasm by proper stimulation of her nipples if she has been brought to a state of intense clitoral arousal. Stimulation of her nipples and clitoris at the same time will give her a yet another unique intense orgasm. Her ultimate height of pleasure is found in oral or manual titillation of her clitoris while simultaneously having her g-spot stimulated. It is interesting that this is best accomplished by the use of multiple sexual partners, suggesting nature’s preference for male, female, male couplings. Finally, the crowning pinnacle of a woman’s sexual superiority is her ability to have a multiple orgasm and full body orgasmic experiences.

Men, on the other hand, are far simpler sexually. Stimulate their glans (the little patch of skin at the front of the penis just below it’s head) and they ejaculate. Furthermore, men can get nearly the same level of satisfaction from masturbating as the do completing a sex act with a woman. For women, masturbation will give them only temporary relief. Women need to have sex with a partner to be fully satisfied, especially psychologically.

The male also has a much simpler sex drive than a woman. He simply wants to mate with any female he finds desirable. The longer he is denied sex, the stronger his desire grows and the criterion by which he finds a woman desirable lowers. Since it is the woman who decides if he will be allowed to have sex with her or not, his desire for her sexually is also linked to the desire for her approval. As he becomes more interested in her the desire to please her as a way to get sex can become overwhelming for him. That is why you will often see men acting foolishly in front of females they desire, even though they have no chance to have sex with them. That is also why, once married, a man will begin to take his wife for granted; now that he has easy availability of sex from her, she becomes less desirable to him.

One might think that this is a good argument for having an open marriage in which both a wife and her husband find sexual partners outside their marriage. Interviews with couples in open marriages have shown that these marriages almost always lead to a competition between the two spouses regarding who is having more sex with more partners. A wife will always win this competition because it is much easier for a woman to find sexual partners than it is for a man. The competition, however, can become nasty, ugly and often cruel. A wife will sometimes be drawn into the competition so deeply she will have sex with far more men than she wishes too, and her husband will have growing feelings of inadequacy, as he cannot keep up with his wife. This kind of competition almost always destroys a marriage.

Furthermore, the idea of open marriage assumes the erroneous notion that men need a variety of sex partners. While all evidence indicates that a married woman both physiologically and psychologically does need a variety of sexual partners, a married man does not. The genetic code that drives a man is the thrill of pursuit, not the need for variety. Husbands in clinical studies who’s desire for their wives have waned and who’s interest have turned to other women have been completely turned around when their wives begin using arousal and denial techniques on them. These techniques instill uncertainty in the husband as to whether he will be allowed to complete a sex act with her or not. Time after time, in study after study, these husband’s desires have been focused back to their wives exclusively, losing all interest in other women. The wives in these studies were even able to vary their husband’s level of interest through increasing or decreasing their application of arousal and denial techniques. It was further found that when these same wives reverted back to traditional sexual practices with their husbands, their husbands began to loose interest again and began to again look at other women as possible sex partners.

Interestingly, it was during the sexually repressive Victorian Era that an unusual mix of cuckoldry and the sexual arousal and denial of males was employed. It was believed at that time that many ills were caused by excessive male ejaculations. They believed that loss of sperm contributed to a whole host of maladies, from asthma to mental illness. As a result, chastity devices were often prescribed for men. This practice was so prevalent that over two hundred patents for male chastity devices were applied for during this era.

Conversely, at this same time, it was believed that women suffered hysteria from lack of sexual release. Orgasmic therapy was prescribed for the treatment and prevention of female hysteria. Women would visit their doctor, or the doctor would come to a woman’s home to manually, or in secret, by more intimate means, deliver her orgasms. Most often it was married women who requested this therapy, often as much as three times a week. Some doctor’s journals noted that the demand became so great that they had to delegate these visits to their interns.

A structured practice of female sexual satisfaction and male denial grew quickly. Women had a lot of leisure time and spread the word of the benefits of orgasmic therapy and spousal chastity through the popular women’s societies prevalent at the time. Since men could not be trusted to have self-discipline, their wives were usually given the keys to their chastity devices. A kind of secret society developed in which these wives called themselves Key Holders. Key holding wives would deny their husbands sex while they enjoyed the services of their physicians and their physician’s interns or secretly engaged in sex with other men. Within these women’s clubs women introduced other wives who were unsatisfied with their husbands, to recommend chastity for their husbands and treatment for hysteria for themselves. Doctor’s finding a man’s wife desirable would also prescribe the same in order to gain access to her.

Some woman’s journals discovered from this time period tell of their exploits with doctors, interns and other available men. The jest of the mailman and milkman delivering more than mail and milk are very well rooted in fact. It is interesting that a whole society developed around wives having sex with other men while denying their husbands who had to remain faithful to them. It is not uncommon to find entries in a wife’s journal such as “I had a wondrous day today. After a most satisfying visit, for both myself and Doctor Elbridge’s young intern, I spent a delightfully entertaining evening raising my poor husband’s lustiness near to its pinnacle during this time that he must abstain from loosing semen. His antics were most amusing and raised my own lust. As always, he proved his devotion to me by pleasuring me in a most deliciously French way.( Mine will be the most scrumptiously naughty story of any lady tomorrow at tea)

Another journal tells how excited one wife was that she had her husband doing housework, an unheard of practice at a time when male and female roles were so rigid, illustrating again how arousal and denial of sex can totally alter a man’s behavior. Other journal entries tell of the rise in attention from their husbands and the thrill of sneaking around behind their husband’s back and having sex while their husband was “locked in his cage.”

While diagnosing the damage done to women by denying them the fulfillment of their sexual needs may have been falsely labeled hysteria, the doctors of Victorian times were startlingly near the mark. Victorian doctors had insightfully identified the need women had for sex with a variety of men.

Unsurprisingly, since human societal structures were originally matriarchal, societies that still live today in ways closer to our original female and male roles do not suffer from the damages of psychological and physiological stress. These more basic societies, far from the modern world, are nearly always matriarchal. It is the women in these societies who control property, family affairs and sexual activity. These women will usually have multiple husbands and lovers. One or two of these men provide them with food, shelter and security, while the others provide them with sex. Male, female, male couplings are not only accepted, but quite normal. In some societies, certain “stud” males will exclusively service a wife, in others, wives will share, exchange and even trade stud males. Men in these societies are happy in their subordinate roles to women. While there are some incidents of jealousy, there is no violence, crime, or sexual perversion. Men are focused on pleasing their wives instead of impressing other women in the group or competing with other men, except in the area of being good sex providers. Wives will keep this competition light and fun and ongoing. Men focused on this kind of competition do not compete with each other in other ways either, leading to much stronger male/male friendships and cooperation.

An unlikely place further confirmation of the appropriateness of cuckolding in human bonding relationships was discovered in the findings of primate studies. In one study, researchers found two anatomical influencers of fidelity in primates. One was the physical size difference between the sexes. The other was the male’s ratio of penis size to body mass.

It was found that in those species of primates where the female was considerably larger than the male, the female would have many sexual partners and bond with none. As female/male size became closer, the female would bond with one male. This male would remain faithful to her, but she would continue to have sex with non-bonded males. It was found that this was not reversed until the male became extremely larger than the female.

The second influencer the researchers discovered was the ratio of penis size to body mass. In species where the difference in physical size between the sexes was slight, (as it is in humans) the penis to body size ratio increased female dominated sexual behavior. The smaller the penis to body size, the more bonded males were restricted to activity with only their mate while females would engage in sexual activity with a variety of non-bonded males. Within these groups, females would generally bond with males with smaller penises and engage in sexual activity with better-endowed, non-bonded males. The most common activity between females and their mates was grooming and eating, with the far greater amount of sexual activity occurring between mated females and males other than their mates. Neither mated nor non-mated females would engage in sexual activity with bonded males who were not their own mates. The most frequent sexual activity of bonded males was masturbation.

This study particularly intrigued me because it’s findings correlated so closely with my own experiences. I have assisted many couples in beginning and maintaining cuckold relationships. Among my patients, husbands with smaller penises were not only more agreeable to being cuckolded, but would even sometimes suggest it. These very enlightened, lesser-endowed, husbands were keenly aware of their inability to satisfy their wives sexually. By accepting their wives engaging in sex with other men they were relieved of the pressure to perform.

It makes sense that this behavior would be present in humans since humans are primates whose difference in size between the sexes is slight and men’s penises are very small when compared to their body mass. Also interesting is that women, like other primate females, will rarely engage in sex with married men. A husband’s wedding band makes for a fairly efficient chastity device.. A wife’s wedding band, however, does little and sometimes even encourages pursuit by men. This further illustrates that the innate human proclivity for cuckold relationships goes genetically even deeper.

Our modern morals and the female/male roles imposed on us by society are not only aberrant behavior given our genetic make up, but psychologically unhealthy and morally unethical. It is unfair that a woman is forced to repress the powerful sex drives that are so genetically imbedded in her psyche. Most married woman simply can’t do it. It is uncountable today how many wives are having sex with other men behind their husband’s back because our society cannot accept a woman’s natural needs.

At what point did we move from a matriarchal to a patriarchal society that perverted our male and female sexual roles? We have so inverted out ideas of human sexuality that we have come to believe that women have a lower sex drive than men when the reverse is true. We think that men should be free to have sex unbridled, when it is women who should be freed and men bridled. We have created a society in which women struggle with guilt and frustration over their natural sexual needs while men are obsessed with perverted sexual deviations from far too great an access to far to great a variety of sexual stimuli and freedom.

Just as our modern lives preventing us from responding to our need to express our flight or fight response leads to stress, and our turning from whole foods to processed foods give us all sorts of physical ailments, our denial of our natural sexual programming leads to untold emotional and behavioral problems. It would startle the average person to learn how many divorces are caused by the inequity of a woman’s unfulfilled sexual needs. In an effort to protect the man from humiliation it is rarely mentioned in polite society that the reason for a couple’s divorce was because the wife was finding sexual satisfaction outside their marriage. If we could be open and honest about a women’s needs, and that it is not the fault of their husbands that they need to fulfill those needs outside their marriages, then maybe we could begin to embrace cuckoldry as a healthy societal norm and save far more marriages.

I have saved many marriages in my practice by gently introducing the idea and practice of cuckoldry to struggling couples. I have seen in my own female patients that once they start to engage in sex outside their marriage with the acceptance of their husbands and the security that their husbands will remain faithful, they become more centered, calm and confident. Similarly, once their husbands get past their jealous feelings and fear of inadequacy they become calmer and more mature, no longer engaging in childish behavior like nights out with the boys or an obsession with sports. They even loose their interest in pornography as their wives recounting of their extramarital exploits, or their participation in those exploits, becomes much more titillating to them than the artificial titillation of pornography.

When my female clients add the uncertainty principle of arousal and denial to their cuckold marriage a woman can bring her husband back to the days when they were first dating. Husbands become more focused on their wives and no longer suffer the frustrating feelings caused by a desire for unattainable women.

Cuckold marriages can evolve into a great variety of preferences. In my own practice I have seen cuckold marriages that range from those in which cuckolding wives enjoy subjecting their husband’s to humiliation and punishment, to those in which wives will have sex with other men in front of her husband as a form of entertaining them, to just about everything in between. Most couples in my practice, however, have very loving marriages with playful arousal and denial that seem conventional in every way except that the wife dates while her husband remains faithfully hers.

It is regretful that the cuckold relationships of Victorian times could not have evolved into an open way of life accepted by modern society. It is my hope that one day it will.

kentuckycuck Jun 25 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 3
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Rae was a cute, young wife, and I was her first guy after she got married. That was 22 years ago, and we still stay in touch.  Her husband Mike encouraged her (that’s putting it lightly!) to play. I played with them a couple of times in their home (in Philadelphia). Well, she got a job that had her traveling for business, and she would come to NJ for training and so forth. Mike had no problem with her seeing me alone, he just wanted us to video it for his enjoyment. She was not on birth control, and when I met her it was before her two kids were born, and mike had his vasectomy.


Well…. The video would stop or whatever, and I would jump out of bed to restart the camera, or adjust it.. She found that very frustrating, sometimes she would be on the edge of orgasm, and I’d jump up. So, this one time, she asked me not to tell Mike, and to leave the “Damn Video” camera at home.


So, we fucked for about 4 hours or so. At one point, I rolled off of her onto my back, and stripped off my rubber. She climbed on top of me, and started rubbing the tip of my cock on her clit (that drives me crazy), and then between her moist pussy lips, then back to her clit, then back between the lips, then just the head into the entrance of her vagina, then back out with a ‘pop’ sound…


“Watch out… that things’s loaded”, I said. Hell, it was slathered in cum… “It’s good for you that I have so much control”.


“Really? I want to see you lose control, he he he!”, and she continued to play…. It got to be too much for me, and on one of those teases with the opening of her cunt just kissing my cock head, I reached up and grabbed her ass and pulled her down, HARD. She gave a deep, throaty laugh, and started riding me cowgirl style, mumbling something like “I won.”


We’d been fucking for well over an hour, but suddenly it was even hotter than before… she pressed down hard and started to moan as she was cumming, so I lifted my ass and thrust my cock as deep as I could into her, groaning… She thought I was cumming (I wasn’t), and started to freak… “No! NO! NOOOO!”, she screamed, and tried to pull away. That only made me grab her and pull her down harder on top of me… she screamed and pounded on my chest, and struggled to try to get away… THAT pushed me over the edge, and I fucked her hard from below and shot a HUGE load into her.  


I held her tight until my cock and balls stopped throbbing, my seed planted deep inside her… I relaxed and she rolled off, my cum gushing out of her slit. We talked. “OMG, what am I going to tell Mike?” She is a devout Catholic, an abortion would be out of the question. All I could say was, I warned her. Like I said, my dick was already coated with sperm, the orgasm inside of her was just icing on the cake.. She had taken the risk once she started teasing me. But, having already filled her with cum, we didn’t use rubbers for the rest of the afternoon, and thoroughly enjoyed more bareback fucking for the rest of our tryst.


She missed her period. Rae was NEVER late. She had only been late twice since her mid-teens; once when pregnant with her son and once with her daughter. A week went by. Another week. Chatting with her on the computer, I could tell she was nervous. But, we both admitted, that it was the hottest sex we had ever had.. Together, or separately.  And then, just before she was going to tell Mike, she finally got her period… it was a remarkably heavy one, with nasty cramps, most likely a miscarriage.


Anyway, that’s exactly what happened. I’m conflicted… on one hand, I’m glad we didn’t have to explain “Uncle Fred” to her kids and family, on the other, it would have been nice… oddly enough, I don’t think Mike would have minded. She has ‘retired’ from Hotwifing, but as I said, we still stay in touch. No one ever leaves the lifestyle… they just put it on hold for a while.

HungSexyGuy Jun 1 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 4 · Tags: pregnancy risk, hotwife
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